ABOUT US
Pertubuhan
Memupuk Asas Ikatan Keluarga, Kuala Lumpur &
Selangor ( PEMALIK ) also known as
Association For Fostering Family Ties, Kuala Lumpur And
Selangor was founded in Year 2006 by people who have come to
recognise the seriousness of parental alienation and its
negative effects in society today.
It is Non-Political,
Non-Religious, Non-Gender Biased & Non-Profit oriented
organisation open to members in the Malaysian
community.
PURPOSE
To create awareness of the importance of
family ties especially so amongst young children and
parents. We encourage the development of good parenting and
family values in this day and age.
Parental relationship with
children is essential for healthy mind
as well as for a balanced emotional and physical
development in our society.
Today, we see
an increasing trend of couples embroiled in marital
disputes using "Parental Alienation" to punish and
deprive the other half of the love of their
children. What usually happens is that one
parent(perpetrator) tends separate a
target parent(victimized) from having any association
with their children(victim). It is done in
many ways, some aggressively, others
tacitly.
Aggressive methods are when one parent
expressly disallows the other from communicating with
their children. The victimized parent is unable to talk
or see his/her child in school and participate
in activities with his/her children in school or
in any events or functions.
Tacit
methods are used when this parent
influences the child negatively about the other parent
through consciously or subconsciously means. Further,
this domineering parent assures the child that it is
alright for the child to ignore the other parent.
Simultaneously, we also
see a growing trend in our society where
ADULTS tend alienate their aged parents often
leaving them in the hands of caregivers and depriving
them of love and family ties. | 
